No matter how romantic a guy is, women always want more. Why is it that men have the pressure of being romantic? Think of Valentine’s Day. Who is usually responsible for planning out the day and making sure there is some romance involved? Men. I don’t know any couple where the woman is in charge of this. It’s up to the men to pull through, be creative and most importantly, be romantic.
Women, if you want your men to be more romantic, maybe you should help him out on occasions and show him how it’s done.
1. Leave little notes. They don’t have to be anything profound, but leave a post-it in his briefcase or on the mirror so he sees it when he goes into the bathroom in the morning. Say, “I’m thinking of you” or “Have a great day.” Just a little something to put a smile on his face and start his day off right. Or it can be X-rated, so he can look forward to it when he gets home.
2. Better yet get him a card. I love cards, especially if there is no special occasion, and it’s just for the heck of it. Getting a card out of the blue is sure to brighten anyone’s mood. Leave it on his car’s dashboard, so he gets it before arriving to work.
3. Buy him tickets. Find his favorite sports team, concert, movie or comedy show. What guy isn’t going to run out and watch one of the most anticipated sequels, Hangover 2? Get him tickets and even better, tell him to invite his best friend. Give him a night out for just the guys. He’ll love you for this one.
4. Surprise him. What’s his favorite sport to play or hobby? Does he play golf? Get him a tee time or new golf balls. Is he a sci-fi nut? Purchase tickets to the sci -fi convention coming to town. Take an interest in what he likes to do, and he will reciprocate the favor.
5. In the house. Of course you can always be more romantic around the house. Wear only your apron and a favorite pair of high heels to cook his favorite meal, knowing he will be home any minute, while you’re still in the kitchen. Create the rose petal path to the bedroom that leads to the bed full of petals. Step out of your comfort zone and dance sexy for him. Put on his favorite lingerie or costume to make his fantasies come true.
Guys may not like to admit it, but they enjoy a little romance in their lives. They shouldn’t be the only ones enticing. They will appreciate and enjoy the effort you make. Not that you need a reason to be romantic with you guy, but you will likely get it tenfold back. If you are like me, you will just enjoy watching the expression on his face…and that will make it all worth it.
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