Almost another year has come and gone....and in this year it seems my life didn't change much. Well, a few things definitely stand out.
One of the more important ones is I found out my best friend from high school, Andrea Smith Cobb, past away. She actually died three years ago, but I just found out about it in September, the day after my birthday. Happy Birthday to me, right?! I drove to Tulsa a month later, for her birthday, to visit her grave. It was heartbreaking for me. I cried myself to sleep for three days after finding out about her death. A Braum's semi truck hit her car, with her mom, husband, two little boys and herself. Although her mom was badly injured, Andrea is the only one who died. Her sons and husband walked away without a scrape.
I met up with her mom at the beginning of November. She and I talked for several hours about Andrea, high school, and all the years in between. Although I hadn't talked to her in years, I still miss her, and I don't think that will change. I think of her often and never for one moment realized that when I begged to see her at our high school reunion (because she wasn't going to it) that would be my last time.
She was one of those people...the one who everyone loved. She treated everyone the same, was friendly, and always had a smile for you. She was caring, giving, and generous....and she made me laugh. Just seeing her made my day brighter, and I knew it was going to be a good one. Andrea was rare, and just having her in my life, makes me a better person. I find myself talking to her, knowing that she is watching over me and on my side no matter what. She is up there with my uncle, and they are having a good time laughing...probably at my expense. But that's okay, because I would be laughing right there with them.
Her boys were 3 and 7 when she died. Andrea's mom gives all she has to make sure they remember Andrea. The thing is...anyone who knew her will never forget her. She is just not a forgettable person...She is my friend, and even in her death, that can't be taken away.
Another memorable moment of 2009 is I met up with another high school friend who I haven't seen since high school. She and I live about 5 minutes away from each other, and we finally got together for lunch. It was a great time, and she is actually the one who told me about Andrea. I had been waiting for 17 years to meet up with her. I'm so pleased we finally had the chance, because I've missed her over the years.
Then there is Facebook....I got in touch with my dearest friend from high school. She didn't go to high school with me, but we met at work. I've missed her terribly throughout the years. She is still doing well in North Carolina...living what looks like the good life and enjoying it. I'm so happy for her. She and I shared so many good times.
Thank you, 2009, for all my many friend discoveries. I know 2010 will send vast career advancements and my wish man to me! So, goodbye to 2009, and HHHEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOO 2010! Here's looking at the new hope for MY CAREER and MY MAN! I hope you have a wonderful New Year and a better 2010! Best Wishes on all that awaits you!
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